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Psychological Counselling: Obsessive Compulsive Disorders & Addictions

AA is non-Alcoholics Anonymous today
AA has become "non-Alcoholics Anonymous" with the writing of the 12 Traditions and AA's 12by12 book.

In its Tradition 3 the 12by12 pg.139 says that any serious drinker can become an AA member, (he doesn't have to be an alcoholic). Also in the 1st step of 12by12 pg23 Bill says that many "young people who were scarcely more than potential alcoholics" had started joining AA and wonders how "people such as these take this step". So we can see that the 12by12 is primarily written for such non-alcoholics of AA. In it he brings in the concept of personal powerlessness and obsession as the mental part of the disease for these non-alcoholics to be able to take step1. But trying to follow these directions of Step One from the 12by12 makes it very difficult for alcoholics to take Step One. I can forgive Bill for he was going through regular bouts of depression when he wrote the 12by12. But I wonder how others have not noticed the change in the AA 12 Step program.

In the AA Big Book the word "powerless" is used but once, on pg 59 where the 12 Steps are outlined. elsewhere in the BB it is called 'inability in controling alcohol'. The dash used in AA's Step One indicate that both the concepts are one and the same. Powerless over alcohol means our lives had become unmanageable. This is what a dash used in the English language means. So there is need to make such a big thing about powerlessness, as it is done today in both AA & NA.

Also in the BB nowhere has obsession been referred to as a part of the disease. The mental part according to the AA Big Book is our inability after sometime to distinguish true from the false (true being 1st drink does the damage, and false being One drink/drug will not matter or will make me feel good)---at times our mind cons us in taking the 1st one.

Unfortunately for us in NA, while writing our literature we have made "obsession" as the mental part of our disease. We are not powerless over our obsession, the obsession comes and goes. What we are powerless over is our mind's ability to con us, deceive us into starting drugs again. Once a newcomer is explained the 1st Step in this way he straight away realizes (or admits to himself) that he is powerless, over both his body & mind i.e himself, drugs and addiction. Then we don't have to waste time over the 1st 3 steps we can right away take him on to the 4th. The 3rd step incidentally is "deciding to find this power greater than ourselves," for only after finding this Power can we turn our lives over to it.

In a 1955 "Saturday Review" article on the publishing of the 2nd addition of AA Big Book, Bill says that already more than half the people coming to AA were potential alcoholics (not alcoholics). These people could stay clean without having to work the steps as they weren't alcoholics at all. While alcoholics coming to AA kept on relapsing, and maybe stopped coming to AA after some time, because an alcoholic needs to work the 12 Steps in order to recover. The result of this going on over the years is that today the vast majority of the AA members are non-alcoholics. The alcoholics coming to AA try to copy their example (of not working the steps or working them only after months or a year) and keep on relapsing. So AA does not work for most alcoholics nowadays.
Vipassana - Cancer, Death & Nibbana/Nirvana
http://www.vri.dhamma.org/newsletters/en/en1998-11.shtml
Tags: meditation, vipassana, recovery, death, cancer
Monday July 7, 2008 - 02:00am (IST) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
NA, AA & Money
In NA (& in AA too) the groups and us individual members are the bosses, and they create service boards and committees that are directly accountable to those they serve, i.e. us members & groups. So those in service in these committees, Area, Region or NA world services NAWS are our servants -- "Trusted" only means that they are entrusted to do only what we tell them.

But in practice we have given all our money to our servants and they are controlling it & acting like our bosses. This is like the boss of the house has no control over his money or property but his servant is calling the shots. This is what's WRONG in both NA & AA. The Groups have no money, but the world services of both NA & AA each earns around 10 million dollars every year and are controling it. In NA they don't even tell us how much salary those working at the NA World Service Office earn.

I hope there is some way for the boss/groups to take back control from his abusive servant! The groups will do much more for the recovering addicts if they had their money back. The NAW$ team only seems to be blowing it up, flying 1st Class at least one or two of their cronies twice each year to India (I'm not aware where else they fly them) & putting them up at 5 Star hotels. The latest I hear is that they've shown a loss of US $600,000?- in hosting the World Convention of NA last year.
Vipassana in USA's Maximumsecurity Prison
Article from todays Times of India http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Repository/ml.asp?Ref=VE9JTS8yMDA4LzA1LzExI1BjMDIzMTM=&Mode=HTML&Locale=english-skin-custom :

Inmates meditate to connect with God
According to The Dhamma Brothers, a documentary, the intense 10-day Vipassana meditation programme undertaken by nearly two dozen prisoners at Alabama’s Donaldson Correctional Facility — a maximumsecurity prison — was a rousing success. “Meditation is a form of treatment that works well in prisons,” said Jenny Phillips, the film’s codirector and producer. “It’s not a relaxation technique; it’s not a religion; it’s a way to develop skills in managing emotions, and this is what prisoners crave. In a prison like Donaldson, people are so miserable and unhappy that they are looking for redemption and meaning. These guys were looking for nothing short of salvation, and they found it within themselves,” he added. If nothing else, the Vipassana retreat, which involved nine days of total silence and round-the-clock meditation, also shows how religiously and spiritually oriented programmes can be a boon for correctional facilities, producing motivated inmates who are less of a discipline problem.
Tags: vipassana, spirituality, stress, addiction, counseling, meditation, recovery
Sunday May 11, 2008 - 09:02am (IST) Permanent Link | 1 Comment
The Science of Liberation (Nibbana, Nirvana or Moksha)

Here's a letter I'd written some years back to a friend explaining the scientific nature of the Buddha's teaching -- Vipassana meditation:


>>I looked at you web page www.dhamma.org for meditation. Looks very interesting. I

>have practiced Transcendental meditation on and off for 20 years,
>How does this differ, or does it?

It sure is a lot different. I've not practiced the other types of meditations but I think that most of them deal with concentrating & sharpening the mind or stilling the mind with the help of a mantra and/or breath or focusing the mind on an image of a deity/god or light between the eyes etc. In short, to go into 'samadhi'. This does empower the mind & with it come all sorts of supernatural powers or ‘siddhi’s as we call it in India.

But in Vipassana, the aim is to come out of all our suffering, to purify the mind. Vipassana means 'seeing with insight', seeing things as they actually are, not as they appear to be. It is the eight-fold Noble Path re-discovered by Gottama when he became the Buddha. Buddha means one who has got 'bodhi' or enlightenment, who has reached the final goal, to come out of all suffering. When he became a Buddha his pure mind, which is always filled with love & compassion, made him teach others how he had come out of all suffering, so that they too would become fully liberated, or Buddha’s. And during his time thousands of people became fully liberated using the technique, Vipassana or Dhamma or the 8 fold noble path. Unfortunately the technique got lost in India within the next 5 centuries or so & also in all the other countries where it had spread, except in Burma where a few monks maintained it in its pristine purity. Now it is spreading all over the world, & is helping lots of people come out of their sufferings. It is taught in many of the jails in India, USA & UK too. Recently I saw a vedio on it being taught at the North County half-way house in Seattle Washington, to a bunch of female, most of whom were addicts. It was very touching. Try & order it from the www.dhamma.org site. Also the book 'Art of Living' by William Hart, there, will explain to you Vipassana in details.

Vipassana has to be learnt at a 10-day course. The technique is divided into 3 parts. 'Shila' or morality, 'samadhi' or sharpening the mind, i.e. being master of the mind rather that being a slave of the mind, and 'pannya' or wisdom, to purify the mind. On the first 3 days with the base of morality, i.e. no killing, stealing, lying, intoxication nor sexual abuse, we are trained to develop our samadhi by keeping our attention around the nostrils on our breathing, and maintaining it there for as long as possible. And to keep on getting it back to the breath when we become aware that our mind's wandered away. Suffering i.e. anger hatred, fear, passion etc. are a universal malady and so the remedy should also be universal. Hence no words/mantra or images etc. are to be used while developing 'samadhi'. The whole process is based on the truth or reality as it is. When we sit & close our eyes, the most obvious reality we become aware of is the breath. So we use this to develop our samadhi. There is another reason too, that our mind is closely related to our breaths. Whenever any negativity arises in our minds we notice that the breath looses it's normality. It becomes a bit faster or harder. Also as we realize it on the 3rd day, that the breath is the door that separates the conscious from the so-called unconscious or subconscious mind. On the 3rd day we are asked to feel the sensations on the nose & below it, above the upper lips. And because the mind has become sharper by the practice of samadhi for 3 days, we start feeling all sort of sensations there. They were always there but our conscious mind was too gross to feel them till then. Only the subconscious was feeling them & reacting to them, till then. Now that the barrier to the sub-conscious mind has been pierced, on the 4th day we are taught 'pannya'/wisdom or the actual technique of Vipassana. At an hour an a half sitting with the teacher, he guides us how to do it. He guides us to take our awareness from our nose to the top of the head & asks us to feel the sensations there, whatever they are, as it is. Gross or subtle, throbbing or tingling, heat or cold whatever they are as they are right now. Then he guides us from the top of the head to the whole head, forehead, eyes, ears, cheeks, nose, lips, chin, then down one hand down the other, then the front & back body, & down the legs, slowly, part by part feeling sensations on each part. And on feeling the sensations we are asked to remain equanimous to them, i.e. not to react with craving if they are pleasant sensations & nor with aversion (or go away, go away,) if they are unpleasant sensations. We are told to remain aware that these sensations are always impermanent & are going to change any way.”This too shall pass”. So it is pointless reacting with craving for something that is impermanent, for when it goes away we'll only suffer. So we feel the sensations part by part and as soon as we get sensations there, without reacting to them, knowing this too shall change, we move on to the next part. Observe, without reacting & move on. This way we keep on moving from head to feet & feet to head in order, not missing out any part of the body. It is very essential not to react to these sensations, for when we react we tie the mind with knots/'karma'/'sankhara's & the mind becomes impure. And when we don’t react we purify the mind. (Vipassana to me, is the constant practice of the line “We can only change the way we react and the way we see ourselves.” from our Basic Text.)

Initially we can only feel gross sensations with subtle sensations here & there. As we continue, the mind becomes purer & sharper & can start feeling subtle sensations on many parts of the body, by the 6th or 7th day. Later on we can feel subtle sensations flowing through-out the body. But we have to remain equanimous always and not get into the madness of playing sensation-games, else it only ties you up & doesn't free us as it's supposed to. Vipassana is a very scientific technique. The Universal Law which we call Dhamma or Dharma is just that, universal. It applies equally to each one of us. Whenever we develop any negativity in our mind it is bound to tie us down & whenever we develop love & good-will it is bound to free us. Our 3 enemies are craving, aversion & ignorance. The trouble with us is that most of us are ignorant because we don’t know that our so called sub/un-conscious mind is always conscious to these sensations & is constantly reacting with craving or aversion to these sensations. Even when we're asleep, if a mosquito bites us we slap it, if we feel the weight unbearable after sleeping on 1 side for too long, we turn over. All the sages/religions/etc. over the centuries have told us that we should not crave nor have hatred, not get angry, be afraid, etc.. But how not to? Buddha showed us the way to do that.

The apparent reality is that we crave/hate worldly things. He said that we are not reacting to outside things but to the sensations within. The outside world becomes a reality for us only when it comes in contact with our 6 sense doors (the 6th being the mind -- connected with thoughts & feelings). Whenever anything comes in contact with any of our sense doors what happens in the mind is this. (He divided the mind into 4 parts.) The 1st part of the mind 'vinyana' or consciousness, becomes aware that something has happened at this sense door, say the ear-sense. Then the 2nd part, 'sannya' or evaluation giver, gives an evaluation, good or bad (depending on our past conditioning), good/pleasing word or bad/threatening words. The 3rd part is 'vedana' or sensations. Depending on the evaluation, the mind starts generating 'asavaas' or a bio-chemical flow which causes sensations all over the body. If the evaluation is good then we start feeling pleasant sensations, and if it is bad we start feeling gross, dirty/painful sensations. Till this moment no harm has been done. But then the 4th part 'sankhara'(sanskara) or reactions starts raising it's head, & reacts to these sensations, with craving if it's a good sensation & aversion if bad. And as it starts reacting the flow of 'asavaa'sstarts increasing and it reacts more & more till it finally forces our body to react. And it's the mental reaction of the 4th part of our mind that plants seeds of 'karma' in us which ties us down. But if we don’t react we don’t add to our stock of ‘karma’s or snskaras.

Vipassana gives us a way out. For now, we can feel all the sensations, that previously only our sub-conscious mind could feel. And, by not reacting to these sensations when we sit for our daily meditation, we have started training our sub-conscious mind to not react. Also when we sit for our Vipassana sittings and are not reacting & adding to our stock of ‘karma’s, then the old seeds of Karma that we had planted in the past start giving their fruits & they come up as sensations. If the seeds were that of aversion, their fruits come up as gross/unpleasant sensations & the craving seeds come up as pleasant sensations. If then we don't react to these sensations then the karma seeds are removed & we’re free from them & the mind becomes purer to that extent. Thus we wipe away our past conditioning/karma and our mind becomes purer & purer & we start becoming more loving people. Buddha in his days, when he used to find people wanting it come out of their miseries used to say to them "Then give me seven days of your life. Just seven days of your life. I am not here to make you my deciple. I am not here to snatch you from your old 'guru' or religion. I am not interested in that. I am not here to tell you that you must believe what I say. I am not interested in that. Give a trial and see what you get. Give a trial"

So, may you too give the Vipassana course a trial and be Happy, Joyous & FREE

For more info. & course-dates check: http://www.dhamma.org

Tags: meditation, spirituality, buddha, vipassana, stress, counseling, recovery, sobriety
Sunday March 30, 2008 - 05:47pm (IST) Permanent Link | 0 Comments

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