Living life day-to-day as a Christian in a world that needs the Good News of Jesus Christ more than ever!
Yesterday was meeting day – all day long! I attended a meeting at the Presbytery office in Indianapolis which began at 9:30 and ran until 3:30 in the afternoon. That’s a long time to sit – and it’s a longer time to deal with problems and issues.
I leave these meetings each month exhausted – my mind simply numb from all the mental exercise it received during 7 hours of discussion and problem-solving. This committee oversees churches and ministers in transition within the presbytery. Simply put, we deal with churches whose pastors are leaving, churches who need pastors, and pastors who are called to serve in local churches.
We also deal with conflict. Lots and lots of conflict. As a member of the conflict team, I hear about the conflicts occurring within different churches – conflict usually centered around the pastor. It can be sad work. It can be heart-breaking work. It can be satisfying work. And, it can be humbling work!
The sadness comes from hearing and seeing the pain churches and pastors experience. The heartbreak comes from the seemingly-constant reminders that we human beings find it way to easy to be disagreeable with each other. The satisfaction comes from the tough process of finding viable solutions and creative ideas for helping churches through these times of transition and conflict.
The humbleness comes from the awareness of God’s powerful work in the lives of these churches and pastors and even our committee.
Thanks be to God that we have the guidance of the Holy Spirit to help us wade through times of hurt, pain, conflict, and disagreement until we can arrive at a new place of joy, comfort, agreement, and peace. Thanks be to God for the promise of healing and new beginnings and the forgiveness of sins against each other and Christ’s church.
At this time when we are constantly bombarded with violence, terror, and bad news that seems to never end, I find it reassuring that God is still in control – if we will open our hearts and minds to his guidance.
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and do not forget all his benefits–
who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the Pit,
who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
who satisfies you with good as long as you live
so that your youth is renewed like the eagles.
(Psalm 103:1-5)
I could hardly believe my eyes this morning. Three dollars and fifty-nine and nine/tenths cents for a gallon of gas. Smoley hokes that’s a lot of money for a gallon of gas! Of course, the thought that immediately followed this shocking price was a very less-than-pastoral idea of what to say to some oil company executives. I don’t think I’m alone in that daydream of giving someone a piece of my mind about the exorbitant price for gasoline.
Then, another thought hit me…
Why am I complaining? I should be thankful to be in the position that I can complain about gasoline prices. What I mean is I’m blessed to live in a country where I can have a car to get me from place-to-place and that gas is readily available for my car – even if I don’t like the high price.
You see, I remember my trip to Guatemala several years ago. It was a mission trip sponsored by Whitewater Valley Presbytery. About 25 of us went down to Guatemala for a week to do some construction work and help in other ways at a Presbyterian Seminary far out into the Guatemalan countryside. While we spent most of our time on site at the seminary, we did have time to see some of the outlying countryside.
I will never forget what I saw!
Most people in Guatemala have no cars or other transportation available to them. Outside of the towns and cities the roadsides are filled each morning and night with men, women and even children walking to and from their jobs. These jobs are not just around the corner or any where nearby. Most of those men and women and children walk for miles to get to work – usually somewhere between five and ten miles each way. As they walk they carry their equipment with them: for the men always a machete and sometimes (if the person was “rich”) a hoe; for the women a large basket on their heads or a huge pile of wood carried across their backs and held in place by a band across their foreheads. Even the children carry small baskets of yarn to be carded or twigs to use for fires.
Those are the fortunate ones – the ones who can find jobs.
Many walk for miles looking for work in the fields (mostly growing export crops of fruits, flowers, and coffee for US and European markets), only to return home still without a job. Most often, home is nothing more than four walls with a tin roof and windows with no glass or screens and doorways covered by a hanging cloth. Most homes house mother, father, and several children as well as grandparents, aunts and uncles. All living with no indoor plumbing, a community hand-pumped well shared by everyone, and meager food plots to raise beans for their meals.
And I’m worried about gas prices.
The memories of those proud men and women in Guatemala provided the contrast I needed to remember my good fortune. I may not like paying high prices for gas, but I am thankful that I have the means to buy that gas and a car in which to drive. I am thankful for a home that has room enough for my family and then some. I am thankful for a regular paycheck and the knowledge that I know where my next meal is coming from. And I’m thankful I live in a country that gives me the freedom to complain all I want – even about such trivial things as the price of gasoline.
I am thankful! How about you?
Kyle was one of “those kids.” You know the type – the one you could depend upon to say the most outrageous thing, act out in the most outrageous way, wear the most outrageous outfits to church. He was in our middle school youth group, and each week was a challenge. No matter what we planned, we always took into account how his actions and reactions might impact the rest of the group.
Without a doubt, Kyle was our “problem child.” He wore our patience past thin almost to the point of nonexistent; he challenged our leadership skills; he tested our coping skills. Youth group would not have been the same without him!
Eventually, we moved on from that particular church and youth group responsibilities. Years of seminary and then serving a church in the Midwest filled our lives. We lost touch with many of the youth we had worked with over the years. Other youth had come and gone; other youth had replaced Kyle as the “most outrageous.”
Ten years or so later, we were visiting friends back in Florida. Their daughters were taking part in a production of South Pacific at a local theater. Following the play, we were waiting in the lobby for our two little “stars” to appear with their parents. As we waited, a young man came and stood near us – in his early 20s – obviously a successful businessman by the way he was dressed. We gave him a quick glance, and went back to talking about our plans for the rest of the evening.
“Excuse me,” the young man said. “You don’t remember me, do you?” We both looked up at the young man, and began searching for some kind of clue as to who he was and how we might know him. After a few moments, we had to apologetically admit that we were unable to recall his name.
“It’s okay,” he said. “Don’t apologize. It’s been ten years, at least. You were my youth group advisors back when I was in middle school. I’m Kyle. Do you remember me now?”
Needless to say, we were surprised and stunned. This polite, well-dressed, apparently successful young man was claiming to be “that outrageous kid” from youth fellowship. But beyond the surprise of his physical changes, what he said next was most shocking.
“You’ll never know how much youth group meant to me. You can never know how much I appreciated how you helped me when you were youth group advisors. That was an awful time in my life, and I just wanted to say thank you for what you did. I’m married now, and my wife and I are very involved in our church. I honestly think it’s because of that youth group that I became a Christian. I’m so glad I have the chance to tell you that.”
We were dumbstruck. I honestly don’t remember what either of us said. I do remember thanking him for coming over to talk with us. He could have easily ignored us, kept his thoughts to himself, and simply walked away. Instead, he made the evening of two middle-aged adults absolutely perfect.
In Chapter Four, “Influence” of Chasing Daylight, Edwin McManus states: “Often divine moments look like inconveniences on the front end. It is virtually impossible to predict the range or depth of impact that can result in the lives of others when we seize these God-given opportunities. Our sphere of influence is no small part in this journey. We must never underestimate where influence can take us.”
McManus is right. It’s a lesson we should not and cannot forget. Our lives touch the lives of so many and we can never really know the impact we make. It’s my hope and prayer that I recognize the divine moments that God places before me – especially those that are disguised as inconveniences.
Our Lord reminds us: "Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me:"
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The following quotation is from an online commentary, “Listening to Life (and the Spirit). It is based on one of the coming Sunday’s lectionary passages: Acts 16:9-15. The link for the entire commentary and passage is: http://www.drbilllong.com/LectionaryII/Ac16.html
“I think the general advice we receive from the culture "out there" is to press forward with determination. After all, we can't let little obstacles get in our path, can we? We know that those who achieve most are often the most determined and focused, and so the "lesson" seems to be that when obstacles arise, keep going. Make those stumbling blocks into stepping stones. I think I have probably even said that a time or two!
“But the message we get from this passage is that when stymied, stop. You might try one more time, but if stymied again, listen. Spend more time listening to life than trying to be an "overcomer." It is rather difficult to listen to the Spirit/life because the new message of what we ought to do or how we should live our lives comes to us of its own accord, when we probably aren't really expecting it. In this instance it came through a night vision, where Paul saw a man beckoning him to come to Macedonia.
“We don't spend much time listening to life/to the Spirit because we are afraid. Fears come in all shapes and sizes, but I think we are primarily afraid because of economic reasons. We think, 'if I really took some time to listen to where life is leading me, I might lose my job, end up impoverished, destroy my family, and die in utter penury and humiliation.' These are the kinds of tricks our mind plays on us, but the net effect is the same: we become people who have not taken the time to listen to life's lessons. Take Paul here as a guide and spend more time listening than proclaiming; more time in developing ears that hear.” -- Bill Long, 4/27/07
The above quote is part of my online study for the coming week’s sermon. I found Mr. Long’s comments very interesting, especially in light of the recent Sunday School class lessons we’ve undertaken. In Chasing Daylight, by Erwin McMannus, we’ve just finished a chapter which urges us “just do something.” Yet, reading the above excerpt it seems we find the opposite advice – stop and listen!
As Christians we struggle daily to lead faithful lives; we look to God’s word for guidance. Which leads to the question of how in the world we know what to do and when to do it. Are we faithful when we stop and listen? Are we more faithful when we move forward to “just do something?” Is there a balancing point between the two we should seek to find? How can we know if we are following God’s will?
I’m searching for some answers, but so far, today, I only have questions. Do you have any questions or answers you want to contribute?