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Blessing and loving to all. Life is precious, live life to the fullest.

Four Lovers At One Time!

Once upon a time, there was this girl who had four lovers

She loved the 4th lover the most and adored him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.

She also loved the 3rd lover very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd lover. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her...Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st lover was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first lover. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four lovers with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'

Thus, she asked the 4th lover: I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No way!' replied the 4th lover, and he walked away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd lover, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No!' replied the 3rd lover. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd lover, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!' replied the 2nd lover. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'


His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.'

The girl looked up, and there was her 1st lover. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!


In truth, you have 4 lovers in your lives:

Your 4th lover is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good; it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd lover is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd lover is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st lover is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with you throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day: Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.


I hope this touched you!

Tags: spirituality, soulsearching, heart&soul.
Monday September 1, 2008 - 09:15pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
Entry for May 18, 2008
Entry for May 18, 2008 magnify

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You


*There comes a time when you must stand alone.
*You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.

*You must be willing to make sacrifices.

*You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.

*Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.
*There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.

*Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.
*Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.

*Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.

*Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

*Work hard at what you like to do and try to overcome all obstacles
*Laugh at your mistakes and praise yourself for learning from them
*Pick some flowers and appreciate the beauty of nature

*Say hello to strangers and enjoy the people you know

*Don't be afraid to show your emotions laughing and crying make you feel better

*Love your friends and family with your entire being they are the most important part of your life

*Feel the calmness on a quiet sunny day

*Find a rainbow and live your world of dreams always remember life is better than it seems

Look for reasons to be grateful.

Gratitude is in itself PROSPERITY!

All we're truly seeking when we want anything is a feeling of fulfillment and well being, that we are loved, cared for and blessed.

That feeling can be ours in any moment when we stop and reflect on all we already have..

Remember that what goes around, comes around.

"At the deepest level of Being, you are one with all that is"

"As far as inner transformation is concerned, there is nothing you can do about it. You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else.

All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter"

"Author Unknown"

Tags: transformation, innerlight, motivational
Sunday May 18, 2008 - 10:02pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
The rain falls where it wants to
The rain falls where it wants to magnify



Smoke Rings In The Dark

by Gary Allan
Well, I won't make you tell me
What I've come to understand
You're a certain kind of woman
I'm a different kind of man

I've tried to make you love me
You've tried to find a spark
Of the flame that burned but somehow turned to
Smoke rings in the dark
The loneliness within me
Takes a heavy toll
'Cause it burns as slow as whiskey
Through an empty aching soul
And the night is like a dagger
Long and cold and sharp
As I sit here on the front steps
Blowin' smoke rings in the dark
(Chorus)
How I know I must be going
Cause love's already gone
And all I'm taking with me are the pieces of my heart
And all I'll leave are smoke rings in the dark
The rain falls where it wants to
The wind blows where it will
Everything on earth goes somewhere
But I swear we're standin' still

So I'm not gonna wake you
I'll go easy on your heart
I'll just touch your face and drift away
Like smoke rings in the dark
(Repeat Chorus)



As a fan, we want to share his song with you for entertainment purpose.

Please support Gary Allan, visit his web site and buy his CDs as we did.

Gary Allan's Official Site
http://boomersint.org/love_songs/SmokeRings.wma

On Youtube
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3_7ph6XK-g
Tags: lovesong, rain, sun, themoon&thestars, heartache, nostalgia
Sunday April 27, 2008 - 12:49am (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
Keep Your Fork!

Keep Your Fork!

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed

with a terminal illness and had been given three

months to live. So as she was getting her things 'in

order,' she contacted her Pastor and had him come

to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final

wishes.

She told him which songs she wanted sung at the

service, what scriptures she would like read, and

what outfit she wanted to be buried in.


Everything was in order and the Pastor was

preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly

remembered something very important to her.



'There's one more thing,' she said excitedly.

'What's that?' came the Pastor's reply.


'This is very important,' the young woman

continued. 'I want to be buried with a fork in my

right hand.'


The Pastor stood looking at the young woman, not

knowing quite what to say.


That surprises you, doesn't it?' the young woman

asked.


'Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request,'

said the Pastor


The young woman explained. 'My grandmother once

told me this story, and from that time on I have

always tried to pass along its message to those I

love and those who are in need of encouragement.

In all my years of attending socials and dinners, I

always remember that when the dishes of the main

course were being cleared, someone would

inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.'

It was my favorite part because I knew that

something better was coming...like velvety chocolate

cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful,

and with substance!'


So, I just want people to see me there in that

casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to

wonder 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to

tell them: 'Keep your fork ..the best is yet to

come.'

The Pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he

hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this

would be one of the last times he would see her

before her death. But he also knew that the young

woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did.

She had a better grasp of what heaven would be

like than many people twice her age, with twice as

much experience and knowledge.

She KNEW that something better was coming.


At the funeral, people were walking by the young

woman's casket andthey saw the cloak she was

wearing and the fork placed in her right hand.

Over and over, the Pastor heard the question,

'What's with the fork?'

And over and over he smiled.


During his message, the Pastor told the people of

the conversation he had with the young woman

shortly before she died. He also told them about

the fork and about what it symbolized to her.

He told the people how he could not stop thinking

about the fork and told them that they probably

would not be able to stop thinking about it either.

He was right. So the next time you reach down for

your fork let it remind you, ever so gently, that the

best is yet to come.

Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed.

They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.

They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and

they always want to open their hearts to us.


Show your friends how much you care.

Remember to always be there for them, even when you need them more.

For you never know when it may be their time to 'Keep your fork.'

Cherish the time you have
, and the memories you

share... being friends with someone is not an

opportunity but a sweet responsibility.


And keep your fork.

XOOXOXOXO

Saturday March 29, 2008 - 11:00am (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
Real Estate Frauds

Real estate prosecutions increase

By CHRIS BAGLEY - Staff Writer | Saturday, March 22, 2008 10:04 PM PDT

A pair of recent FBI raids in Murrieta illustrates caseloads that are growing as homeowners allege recent ---- and not-so-recent --- incidents of real estate fraud, law-enforcement officials said in interviews this month.

It has been a year or more since Southern California's most recent real estate wave began to ebb, and court dockets are still filling up with allegations of fraud from the boom. And reports of identity theft and bogus reverse mortgages continue to roll in.

The numbers of investigations, prosecutions and convictions are rising across the nation as home sales fall and foreclosures increase.

Nationwide, lenders and other financial institutions filed 46,717 reports of attempted or suspected mortgage fraud to authorities between September 2006 and October 2007, up 32 percent from the 2005-06 fiscal year and nearly seven times as many as in the 2002-03 fiscal year, according to records compiled by the U.S. Treasury Department.

The California Department of Real Estate, reported investigating about 9,100 complaints against real estate agents and mortgage brokers in its 2007 fiscal year. That number has risen steadily for four years.

And the FBI tallied 260 convictions on mortgage-related crimes in the year through October, more than double the 123 convictions in 2005-06, according to a bureau spokesman.

Barry Minkow, a former white-collar convict who runs the Fraud Discovery Institute in San Diego, said the combination of modest stock appreciation on Wall Street and skyrocketing home prices in Southern California made 2004 and 2005 "a perfect fraud storm" in real estate.

San Diego County Deputy District Attorney Michael Groch, who oversees real estate fraud prosecutions, said his caseload has increased markedly since then. The real estate division launched 64 investigations and obtained nine convictions last year, he said; many of those incidents date to 2006 or earlier, when allegedly crooked real estate professionals attempted to squeeze equity out of buyers and owners who put too much faith in rising prices. A spokeswoman for the Riverside County district attorney's office said she wasn't able to provide comparable figures.

"There's a lot of fraud when the market is good that people don't report," Groch said. "It's when the market goes down that these things are exposed."

Boom's dark side

Among mortgages that originated in 2005, California ranked 18th among U.S. states in frequency of fraud by borrowers, according to an analysis published earlier this month by the Mortgage Asset Research Institute. The state peaked at No. 2 in 2006 and then fell back to fourth last year, according to the analysis.

The FBI's two raids in Murrieta, in late February, sought records from transactions that former clients and other government agencies allege to have occurred between late 2004 and summer 2006.

Authorities in San Bernardino and Los Angeles counties arrested at least seven mortgage agents and financial consultants last week on suspicion of defrauding hundreds of investors over the course of 2006 and 2007. Prosecutors say the group arranged for inflated home appraisals to qualify homeowners for excessive loans. In some cases, the group allegedly pressured the clients to sign. In other cases, prosecutors say, the group simply forged and photocopied signatures.

New varieties

More recently, Groch said, homeowners are reporting bogus schemes to "rescue" them from foreclosure. The homeowners are easy targets because notices associated with the foreclosure process are available ---- sometimes by the thousand ---- through a wide range of subscription services.

The growing number of reports prompted the district attorney's real estate division to hire a fourth investigator last year, he said.

One typical foreclosure scam is to persuade the residents to deed their house to the con artist under the pretext that he'll make payments on it until they straighten out their finances, Groch said. But then he sells the house without their knowledge and walks away with the money.

A group of investment managers in Murrieta allegedly tried to pull this trick on a group of houses they had helped a couple buy just a couple of years earlier, according to a series of lawsuits filed last year by residents of North County and southwestern Riverside County. The couple and other investors in the group ended up losing more than 100 properties to foreclosure since late 2006.

The couple later withdrew the lawsuit; the FBI is continuing to investigate.

Poway real estate appraiser Todd Lackner said he's beginning to notice new patterns of unethical buying and selling behavior taking the place of large cases of outright fraud.

One scenario involves a homeowner who is "underwater" ---- owing, for example, $700,000 on a house that she could sell for only $500,000. She wants to remain a homeowner in the same neighborhood, so she buys a comparable house down the street for $500,000 and moves into it. The lender typically doesn't care ---- or even know ---- that she's underwater on the first house, as long as she's current on payments.

After moving, she stops paying off the mortgage on the first house. The resulting foreclosure ruins her credit score for the next few years, but she doesn't worry because she doesn't plan to buy a house anytime soon.

Red flags

Recent unethical or fraudulent transactions are small compared with what was going on from 2004 to 2006, Lackner said. Since he began combing through records of home listings and sales a couple of years ago, he said, he has discovered several dozen transactions in North County that appeared to involve some sort of fraud, and 500 more in Riverside County.

The fact that so many turn up in a simple search of title records indicates that many lenders were lax in screening buyers for their ability and intention to repay, he said.

And those numbers don't even include stated-income mortgage applications, which didn't require borrowers to provide proof of income. A 2006 study by the Mortgage Asset Research Institute found that 95 percent of stated-income borrowers overstated their incomes by more than 5 percent; 60 percent of the borrowers in the study exaggerated their incomes by more than half. The statistics underscored nicknames such as "liar loans" and "overstated income loans" that the product had taken on.

"That was almost its intention," Lackner said.

Federal officials have estimated that such loans accounted for 30 percent of all loans in some recent years, and more than half of the loans issued in California.

"Liar loans" aside, a frequent red flag near the end of the boom involved last-minute changes to asking prices in the listing database. Lackner said his reviews of listing and transaction records have turned up hundreds of cases in which a house sat on the market for several months, then suddenly had its list price raised by $10,000 or more, and immediately went into escrow: That's a potential sign that the buyer's agent conspired to collect an oversized and undeserved commission on the property.

Another red flag goes up when Lackner notices an individual who bought multiple houses with 90 percent to 100 percent mortgages within a couple of weeks of each other. Hundreds of buyers may have used the tactic to apply as owner-occupants on multiple loans, allowing them lower interest rates and smaller down payments without giving lenders the chance to turn up earlier loans made on similar terms, Lackner said.

Two large groups of recently foreclosed homes in Murrieta, including the one under investigation by the FBI, have fit this pattern, according to Realist, a database of property records used by real estate agents.

Still, Lackner said, schemes along those lines have recently become smaller in scale and less numerous, partly because of increased attention from law enforcement agencies. That's partly because most houses' lower equity ratios make them less desirable targets for equity theft than in 2004 and 2005, when many inexperienced homeowners were suddenly finding themselves with $200,000 in equity.

Many of the buyers and sellers of those houses have recently reported the transactions to authorities, but Lackner said statutes of limitations, typically two or three years, could prevent some from being prosecuted.

"My only concern is that the statutes are going to run out," he said.

Contact staff writer Chris Bagley at 760-740-5444 or cbagley@nctimes.com. Comment at www.nctimes.com.

http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2008/03/23/business/0bf81c65dc6988078825740b0...

Two Bay Area men who ran mortgage scheme sentenced to prison

By: Associated Press | Thursday, March 20, 2008 9:06 PM PDT

SAN FRANCISCO -- The two founders of a Bay Area company that prosecutors say victimized thousands of people in a mortgage scheme will be spending a long time behind bars.

Kurt Johnson of Sunnyvale was sentenced Tuesday to 25 years in prison, while Dale Heineman of Union City was sentenced to nearly 22 years after both were convicted of multiple counts of fraud and conspiracy to commit fraud.

Federal prosecutors say through their Union City-based Dorean Group, the 45-year-old Johnson and the 48-year-old Heineman promised customers -- for a fee -- that they could eliminate their mortgages.

Prosecutors say as many as 3,500 homeowners and at least 20 lenders in 35 states were victimized.

A hearing for to determine how much restitution the two men will have to pay is scheduled for June.

http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2008/03/21/news/state/16_29_473_20_08.txt

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Monday March 24, 2008 - 12:46pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 1 Comment

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