Truth seeking is a shift moving from knowing to unknowing. Be patient with the ego s initial discomfort as your soul runs free. Reply
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| QUESTION 2 “I have fallen in love and suffered much. After listening to you I have felt unwilling to let go of the dream that my love affair will not ultimately lead to satisfaction. How can I go beyond this attachment that is so rich, yet so painful?” ANSWER. (Part 5) …Up to now, only two experiments have been done. One was of indulgence, which has failed-which is being tried again by the West and is going to fail, utterly fail. And the other was that of renunciation-which has been tried by the East, and also in the West by Christianity. That too has failed, utterly failed. A new experiment is needed, urgently needed. Man is in a great turmoil, in a great confusion. Where to go? What to do with oneself? I am not saying renounce sex, I am saying transform it. It need not remain just biological: bring some spirituality to it. While making love, meditate too. While making love, be prayerful. Love should not be just a physical act; pour your soul into it. Then slowly, slowly the pain starts disappearing and the energy contained in the pain is released and becomes more and more a benediction. Then agony is transformed into ecstasy. You say, "I have fallen in love and suffered much." You are blessed. The really poor people are those who have never fallen in love and never suffered. They have not lived at all. To fall in love and to suffer in love is good. It is passing through fire; it purifies, it gives you insight, it makes you more alert. This is the challenge to be accepted. Those who don't accept this challenge remain spineless. You say, "I have fallen in love and suffered much. After listening to you I felt unwilling to let go of the dream that my love affair will not ultimately lead to satisfaction." I am not telling you to drop your love, I am simply telling you a fact-that it will not bring you to ultimate contentment. It is not in my hands to change the nature of things. I am simply stating a fact. If it were in my hands I would have liked you to have ultimate contentment in love. But it doesn't happen. What can we do? Two plus two are four. It is a fundamental law of life that love brings you to deeper and deeper dissatisfactions. Ultimately love brings you to such a discontent that you start longing for the ultimate beloved, God, you start searching for the ultimate love affair. Sannyas is an ultimate love affair; it is the search for God, the search for truth. It is possible only when you have failed many times, loved and suffered, and each suffering has brought you more and more consciousness, more and more understanding. One day the recognition arrives that love can give you a few glimpses-and those glimpses are good, and those glimpses are glimpses of God-but it can only give you glimpses; more than that is not possible. But that too is too much; but without those glimpses you will never seek and search God. Those who have not loved and suffered never become seekers of God-they cannot; they have not earned that worth, they have not become worthy. It is the sole right of the lover one day to start searching for the ultimate beloved. Love, and love more deeply. Suffer, and suffer more deeply. Love totally and suffer totally, because this is how the impure gold passes through fire and becomes pure gold. I am not saying to you, escape from your love affairs: go deeper into them. I help my sannyasins to go into love, because I know love ultimately fails. And unless they know by their own experience that love ultimately fails, their search for God will remain phony. [From The Book of Wisdom | ||