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in a relationship, any relationship, complete honesty is always
needed. In fact, honesty should be part of the relationship?s
foundation. The principle behind it is that basically, no one likes
being lied to, and if a relationship is to flourish, it should not be
peppered with lies.
Lying with words is simple enough to pull off but easy enough to
detect. No matter how smooth and suave the lie has been delivered, we
all have an innate sense of knowing that we were lied to. Just feeling
that we have been deceived already hurts, regardless of whether it was
done deliberately or not.
But there is another form of lying that is more dangerous than lying
with words. It is called emotional dishonesty. There are times that you
like the guy so much that you would do anything to keep him with you.
You would change your manner of speaking, the way you dress, the way
you wear your hair, your personal routine, everything about you, just
to please him. In effect, you are lying to yourself by not staying true
to your own identity, and you are lying to him as well for showing him
a different person than who you really are.
In the end, the truth shall come out. You are not only in danger of
losing him when the truth behind the lies is finally revealed, but you
would also lose yourself in the process. Losing yourself is one of the
worst possible outcomes in the end of a relationship; sometimes, it is
hard to regain the sense of who you truly are.
All of us have our own stories to tell, stories of how we have loved
someone and did everything we can to keep him with us, to make him stay
as long as possible. I was once in love with someone. We were engaged
for three years, and my entire world revolved around him. We are both
sticklers to schedules, but I always find myself changing my own
schedule to work around his, even if it annoyed me so much and it got
me working late just to meet deadlines. We didn?t live together, so if
he had to go on business trips that would take months, I would
patiently wait for his return, even if he has this irritating habit of
not calling regularly or even sending me email. If he asked me to wear
a particular type of skirt, I would gladly comply. I even had my hair
cut short when he asked me to, even when I love wearing my hair long. I
did that all willingly because I thought I loved him and wanted so much
to be with him.
But one day, I looked at myself hard at the mirror and saw a stranger
looking back at me. Oh, the person the mirror reflects back at me is
me, alright, but she is only a shell of what I used to be. And it made
me very unhappy. In the end, I began to realize that this is not what I
wanted for myself, and that the person he loved is not really me. So I
returned my engagement ring, and we went our separate ways, bringing
the farce to a sour end.
As Whitney Houston once sang a long time ago, ?Learning to love
yourself is the greatest love of all.? Love for your own self is
something you should never compromise in a relationship. To deny this
is to hide your face behind a mask, making the relationship nothing but
a charade.
Love is a pleasant disease. Distance makes it worse, but many fantasies lead to the creation of castles in the air... Love and distance don't go together... but they are a reality.
This is a sick condition because when you love someone, you become dependent on the person you adore. You cannot survive without them and nothing has any meaning.
Try to define what is happening to you and try to understand your position in this situation.
. Are you really in love with this person or with the idea that represents them?
. Are you ready to act and do something to achieve your aim?
. What will happen to you if things are not the way you imagine?
These are the basic questions of your main problem.
There are many questions that worry you besides these basic ones and there are many other problems as well
If you are really serious and really sure, don't be afraid to pursue your happiness
A long distance relationship can survive if you keep communication lines open.
In a long distance relationship trust is a key factor. Trust is very important in a relationship and both of you have to have trust in yourselves and in each other for your relationship to survive. If you do not have this trust, one person or both people in the relationship may get worried, have doubts, be insecure and create tension that is not as easy to overcome when there are miles between you both.
Another way to keep your long distance relationship strong and to create trust is by always updating your mate on what you are up to. Tell them about the friends you have, the work you are doing and just your general daily experiences.
Being creative when you keep in touch is another fun way to keep romance alive while apart and can include anything from e-cards, photos to posting real love letters. Fun emails, faxes and calling to say hello to your love is also a great way to keep your bond strong.
A long distance relationship can be some what of a test for each other, and will prove how strong your love really is. Every now and then, check in with your partner to see if they are happy with your relationship and tell them how you feel as well.
On the other hand, you are far from your love and you ignore many things. Don't be impatient. Be careful: don't spend all your energy in this plan because you may need to survive after a big deception.
You need to able to openly discuss small, meaningless matters, as well as the big, important ones that may make you uncomfortable. The important thing is to be honest with one another.
Telling your mate how much they mean to you and how much you love them will always keep your love flowing.
Compliments are always a bonus! You are both together because you fell in love with each others soul and heart, so it always nice to be reminded of how much someone loves you
Think about everything and be very serious when you do so because your life is very important and the decisions you make today will affect your future.
Whatever you decide to do, decide after thinking seriously about everything and considering what your heart feels. You must be sensitive and sensible at the same time if you wish to be wise and triumph.
And I wish all peoples be happy .healthy and have good life always
amir
One of the most obvious signs of truly being in love is when people smile most of the time when they are together. A happy heart brings a happy face. If a person is very happy in the presence of their partner, chances are they are truly in love. Keep in mind that this is not just any smile; this is a smile that nearly glows, which expresses peak happiness in both people.
The passage of time is another key for couples who are truly in love. Some couples might find that time stands still while they are together, when it fact, time is flying by. This whole distortion of how time is perceived is a sign of a couple being really in love. It is almost like when the couple is together; they lose track of time and practically disappear into a time zone of their own. The love time zone has no beginning or end; it is just a steady dreamlike state of mutual happiness.
Another sign of true love is when a couple makes each other their priority. There is a lot of work and other obligations, which fill up a person’s day and yet it is a good sign when couples make each other their priority. People should obviously do what they need to do for themselves, but under all this, a deep true love for their partner should be there if it is real love. Part of being in true love of course is to understand each other’s work and obligations so that a good balance is met between these things and the relationship. The key is to make time for the person that you love, as there is a time and place for everything and everyone. Those who are in true love prioritize their partner in this way.
Random acts of love and thoughtfulness are other indications of true love. When there is no special occasion and your partner does something loving or special for you, you know that it is real love. When a person goes that extra mile to express their love, it is a good thing. It does not have to involve giving materialistic gifts but it could simply be a kind and loving gesture or even a loving conversation about how they feel about you. Random acts of love and thoughtfulness could include things like bringing a rose home to you or giving you a card or taking you out for dinner. Just watch for little gestures of love that mean a lot, at times when you least expect it.
Also, you know when a person is in love when they think of you in their plans. For example, if a person is planning to go somewhere for the weekend and they ask their partner if they want to come with them. This thoughtfulness shows true love as it expresses desire for their partner to be part of their activities or time away. Little things like this mean so much!
Finally, you can feel true love in your heart when you are with the right person. Your partner’s hug, kiss and touch are unlike anything you have ever known before. There is no mistaking it when love is for real. Also, there are no doubts for true love. There is a certain mutual confidence in a relationship that is meant to be. True love is powerful and passionate!