Hey people !  Sorry that I have been gone for a long while.  But as everyone says SH#@$$#@T!  Happens.  Things must be done in life, to preserve life for those who you love and care about.  And some things are more important then chatting to others on the computer. When you can do so much to save another, no matter how long it takes; it is worth it in the end.  Another life goes on.  Hope all is well with everyone.  Looks to be a bad summer when Gas hits over $4.50  because of another war.  So, Charish what you have. You never know what life would be like if you weren't in it.

OceanBlue    

     I had a thought that just came from a reminder, from my oldest son today.  He had reminded me of how dingy people can be and gullable too.  This is funny, for those who like a good laugh.  I have an exwife somewhere in the world, maybe she is dead, don't know.  Haven't heard from her in so long, it is hard to even picture her face anymore.   Anyway, years ago, 16  I think.  She had took me for a ride.  She had set me up for failure.  She had taken off with what she wanted, with her boyfriend.  Which is fine, that's her life.   She  tried to ruine my life in the process, but it backfired.  So on the next available day that I could, I went and  filed for divorce.  Sounds normal huh?  It was on her birthday, which is funny.  And it was granted with me getting the kids souly, and permanently.  The really funny thing is, it was on April fools day, when it was granted.  And she actually thought years later, we were still married.   She thought it was all a joke and tried to buy a house on the North East Coast Line near Boston.  They had sent me papers to sign for the house, then I sent it to the Police Department for fraud.  She had also been using all of our social security numbers for things.  Like credit, cars, utlities, and even an apartment that was under my 6 yr olds SSN at the time.   Bet she had an experience, when it caught up with her.  She's probably in jail today.  lol  Don't know.  Heard she fled to Mexico.  But how do you not realize a divorce, when you are served?  If that doesn't make you laugh, don't know what would.  My son just thought that was the stupidest thing he had ever seen.  And it was his Bio/carrier, as he calls her.  He doesn't even consider her as a mother.  Some impression she had left with him huh?    Anyway, thought you would like to hear something about stupid criminals.

Have a nice day, and smile!

The title picture says it all! one word in a word, two meanings    In recent studies around the United States, books are aimed at men for several reasons, on many topics. 1. ROMANCE 2. DATING   3. ADVICE 4. HOMELIFE 5. FINANCE 6. RELATIONSHIPS 7. HONESTY 8. AND BEING SENSITIVE      The books are aimed at men, to put out what women want to have in life.  To complain about it. And to be in the public eye, for being the most mature or realistic person in a relationship or marriage. And just being named as the best gender, for love in life. I agree with some of what is written. But,  Why is it that the best selling books, that talk about how to get the right guy or make sure that men know what they want, is always written by lesbiens, or divorced women? Good question. Huh? It is simple: It is always a mans fault these days for everything.  1. They do not make enough money for women.  Yes, Mans fault that they do not want a sponge hanging out until they are broke.  It's a 50/50 relationship, if it will ever work.  2. Honesty, all women say men lie, maybe sometimes some men do. All women lie right up front, to your face when you first talk/chat with them, and mostly it gets worse as time goes by. They can not even be honest enough to tell you their real age, or weight. Think about it.  3  They always tell of how bad things are with men on dating, relationships, home life, and sensitivity towards them.  Everything they do wrong. Like women are the expert on this subject. NOT! There is good on both sides, but to exploit men for their gain is so wrong. If the women who wrote these books were not full of SH-- !  They would have a grand and exciting life with a man. Think about that. 4. Not all men are bad, not all men are good. But you will never find a book saying nothing but bad things about women, we would get sued for slander. Unless it was a BI/GAY  book. And believe it or not, there are worse women out there, then men. 5. About 4 women to every man is worse. Think about that. On the average, there is 8 women to every man here in the USA, and getting higher in numbers every year. It's a needy thing. It only matters to what they say they need. (really want , not need). If this trend continues, there will only be women at each others throats in the future, because they have ran all the good ones off.  6. No one considers that some men actually want a desent woman. One who is not just a pretty face and body, that will do nothing in life except use men for what they want.  Men can find that all day long ( they are called prositutes)  women who use men for money. But some of us actually want something nice. Not a never satisfied woman, who will only be with someone to gain something from it. 7. Physco women are out there in masses too. It used to be believed, that a woman could never do the bad things that men have done. Not true today, There are women who have done worse things in life then men.  So it is an equal blame in life, why love doesn't always work out.  8. The advice thing always gets me. It is always from someone who is not in a relationship or BI/GAY or divorced. Why would any smart man take advice from a woman who can not even keep her own man happy? Think about that. I do not bash on women, just express my opinon when provoked. But but they should not bash on us. It is upsetting. I just wish a desent woman can write a book that is honest and caring about relationships, not the blame game of why their life is so screwed up. One who is straight and not a sponge out for a free ride.  Granted there are a lot of screwed up guys out there, and that is why a lot of women are BI or completely changed over. But please dont ster/ type all of us, as the bad guys. It is an equal fight for a relationship in life, so make it worth wild. Just because (a has been) wrote a book, do not believe what you read. You could make your life worse then it already is. Go with your heart's feeling, or as most people say now a days, Gut feeling. Dont want to be to sensitive. lol  Women are the best thing on this planet, unless they are useless bums, only thinking of themselves and using and hurting people. So, to all the good ones out there, I say thank you. To all the bad, you can kiss it. Not even worth saying it. Have a nice day ladies.