Sexuality is the single most important way to LEARN to love again - love between TWO partners - love between man and women ! Physical sexuality gives you the most valuable feedback about

• your remaining ego
• your spiritual development and progress
• your capability to MAKE happy
• your capability to BE happy
• your capability to GIVE love
• your capability to RECEIVE love
• your capability to focus on important priorities in life only

Your love toward all others is a key factor in happy sexuality within relationship

Before you can enjoy a happy love life with your partner you also need at the very same time have accomplished the very BASIC spiritual lessons in life. lessons like

• helping and supporting OTHERS
• sharing with the poorest ones
• strive for God union and return to God
• work a reasonable work for the benefit of all

as this last points are the basis on which YOUR mutual love between YOU and your partner grows on. no love can prosper without supporting the wellbeing of OTHERS FIRST. no love can prosper when the man is too weak, too lazy or to stingy to work for the benefit of ALL creation.

The problems you may have in your direct sexual life with your partner or with any partner is a direct reflection of spiritual blockages and lessons that you have omitted to accomplish FIRST. a more happy love life is the result of YOUR most direct and efficient spiritual progress as a result of your conscious efforts to dissolve your ego ant return home to God.

If you have learned to fully accept all challenges your love life offers you and if you have learned to reduce your ego and solve your spiritual blockages and problems in divine love - then you may improve on your spiritual path and in your relationship as well.

Mention of the word Tantra is enough to strike terror in the hearts of people. They recoil as if they have stepped on burning embers. This baseless fear signifies nothing but their ignorance. According to the texts the brain gives rise to logic. But when the knowledge about a subject is not adequate one tends to have wrong or clouded thoughts. Then because of lack of knowledge the mind presents arguments that are completely baseless.

Tantra is the heart and soul of India. Not just the ancient Rishis, rather the scholars of other sects like Jainism researched deeply into this science. In India all sciences and knowledge are respected. The Rishi Charvak stressed only on pleasures in life and he said -

Yaavat Jeevat Sukh Jeevat Rinnam Kritvaa Ghritam Peevat

i.e. one should spend a comfortable life even if one has to borrow money for that.

There are so many philosophies that exist which are many times in clash with each other. But if one's thinking is balanced then one can get to the basic facts and essence of life which we cannot do without. If the scientists had not discovered the atom fearing that its power could prove destructive man would never have made it to the moon. The energy in an atom can well be used for destruction but it can also be used for creation. Then it depends on our thinking to what use we put this energy.

Tantra is a science. If you are trying a ritual for a particular purpose and you fail then you should try again and again till you succeed. When an experiment is conducted in some science there never is any surety that one would succeed in the first attempt. One could have to repeat the experiment twice, thrice and may be a number of times. And just as one needs patience, concentration and perseverance for success in an experiment similarly for success in Tantra, Mantra Sadhanas one needs devotion, faith and dedication. Only then can one get the desired result.

The present age is of struggle, cut throat competition, deceit and immorality. There is a mad race to leave others behind. We have forgotten our moral values. In such a situation it is but natural for a person to be afflicted by tensions. If we care to look about in the society we would find that every person is tense or worried for some reason or the other. And unfortunately he has no means of getting rid of his worries. The basis of all knowledge and all the texts is human life. If we fail to make man happy then our science, all the progress we have made in it and all our accomplishments are useless. Exploring the space might be a great accomplishment but all progress is useless if we cannot make man peaceful and happy.

This problem can be tackled only through the power of Mantras. The basis of the use of Mantras is the mind of the person. Through the chanting of the Mantra and because of the resonance produced the mind is transported to a plane where there is only peace and contentment.

Just try this ritual some time. Get ready in the morning at 4 am. Have a bath and wear a Dhoti. Then with a pure mind chant the Guru Mantra or the Mantra related to your deity for a few minutes. You shall feel rise of great peace within and for a few moments you shall be free of all your tensions. It is a way of controlling the mind and science cannot help one here. Even great scientist like Einstein in his last moments realised that by getting close to nature and becoming fused with the Divine one can truly progress in science.

Slowly we are losing faith in spiritualism. If you stop for just a second and think why you are constantly running in life you shall be able to find no answer. Everyone is running madly after money. Science and technology cannot bring you real joy. But Tantra surely can. If we try Tantra Sadhanas under guidance of an expert then surely our problems can be solved and we can gain all that we desire in life.

In fact Mantras are even more important today. Today life is more complex and tough then it was in the earlier times. Hence it is important that we put aside our own wrong perceptions and try to understand the true nature of Tantra through which life could be made comfortable, joyous, tension free and successful.

With love and affection !