Yes, this is my biggest problem now. It’s a real life problem. How to act when she makes mistake in time she’s driving?

I’m, like every ordinary men, just cannot seat there silently. I comment every move she makes. “This is good”, “Brake now”, “Let it roll” and so and so.

And that’s ok (OR NOT). But, when she makes mistakes one after another my stress and fear getting bigger and bigger and finally I’m shaking by the nerves and start yelling to her. It’s a real nightmare for her and for me. I just cannot cool down after it.

I don’t know how other men do this. But I permit that most of the women just give up because of this. Tank’s God my girlfriend will not act like this. She will quick me out from the car. And I understand her totally.

One solution is to don’t go with her. But you will die by nerves at home and you will call her on the mobile which is very not good.

Another solution would be to buy some lessons for her from some driving school. But this will solve only her skills. Not yours.

So you have to “think again” (my favorite verbs). You have to have patient with her, because …. You have to. And finally try this:

Seat there and don’t tell anything, analyze the situations, be careful if something is wrong and act only if there is no another way (but this is the last thing I recommend. Try to feel what she feels. And analyze all her moves, but DON’T tell anything, only if you very sure that she missed to check something and that could have fatal consequences. After you stop let her know where the problems was and where she did it good or bad and WHY. You have to learn again with her. You have nothing to lose, right?

And don’t forget you’re not the best driver, and even if you are, your comments could be fatal. A car is not a toy you can play with, you know the statistics.