Hi Ladies,

I am sure a lot of you have read my blogs containing stupidity men have said to me on the net. Well tonight I want to bring you something worse than anything I have ever posted. I know that I am supposed to do an ode to my 8 years online jerk encounters, but this has to be pushed back. I met a guy online 5 years ago. Ladies this man is drop dead gorgeous. We met, in public in Durham NC. He was on his way out of town, and I agreed to meet him at Shoneys. We never went inside, but did talk for about an hour. He was attractive, and his conversation was great. We continued our online friendship up until now.

On Monday of last week, I saw him come online and noticed that there was a females pics in his IM box. I was surprised, but felt that he finally found someone that he wanted to commit to. In the five years that I have known him, he did tell me of various women who approached him (thus taking his BP page down), and all the pictures they sent, and cam activity that they showed him. Well I spoke, and the female offered to send me something via email. I told her that I was just a friend and we were never intimate. Well she asked me to pray for his victims. I figured ok, my friend has been caught cheating or something. Cheating isn't the word. Apparently there are a lot of women that has fallen for this man. He has one victim that has MS, the he not only verbally abused, but took her financially, and she has a 13 year old son. He is smooth. He sends chocolate covered strawberrys to his females, and also send them sex toys to encourage them to perform for him on cam. I know this is something I felt that he would do because in our first year of friendship he offered, I thought jokingly, to send me a "jack rabbit". Just this past October he asked me to send him pictures since he is in Iraq.

I know of at least 9 women who have this week gone to get tested for HIV. There are more that are in denial, are have yet to be contacted. Its so sad because he has 3 kids, and his daughter is now off in the streets wherabouts unknown. He has been verbally abusive to her, while he praises his sons. He has some issue with women altogether. Some men and women will say this lady that brought this out to the surface is bitter, but she isn't. Her life is at risk, and she is brave to try to help others know what this man is about, and what he could have possibly done to them.

At this moment I won't reveal his name on 360, but there is a group on yahoo called Tees pain for any woman that was a victim to a man with the initials TLY from fayetteville NC with a birthdate of 04/26/1967. He has been married 3 times. (he told me twice.) Even if you have never been with this man, you may have encountered a man just like him, and are welcome to join to share your story with others.

I constantly come in contact with men who think you are desperate and needy for a man and any bullzhit they feed you, you will believe. I WANT a man in my life, but if God does not bless me to have that, I will fill my life with love of family and friends. I refuse to allow any man to manipulate me, and make me feel as though I am lucky to have him. I will not chase a man, nor allow him to victimize me. I get tired of hearing about you are scorned, when the truth is you are simply here to try to take advantage of me. You strike insults at me because you are unable to get me to believe that your lies and deception is in my head. A lot of men will continue to deny thier own bad behavior until a woman believes that maybe it is her.

Ladies, God has blessed us with the gift of intuition. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, ladies it is a duck. Don't allow any man to make you feel ashamed. There are women out here that have been used and abused right along with you. Don't spend your time attacking the other women when in fact it was your "man" that lied to you both. Be a sister to each other and console someone who is going through what you once went through. I truly believe if women stand up and become what God ordained us to be, we as a people can make a vast difference in the behavior that men exhibit.

This is the second situation that I have found myself caught up into that involves a woman catching her man being unfaithful not to just one, but multiple women. I still don't believe that the internet is evil, but merely a tool some use to spread thier deceptive ways more quickly and abundantly. The longer I am online, the less I believe that I will ever find a man worthy of my time and attention. This is not to negate the few men that I know are good men. I have one thats married, a couple that are involved, and one that unfortunately is long distance.

I hope this blog helps someone who is feeling bad to know that she isn't alone. Lets stop protecting these men ladies and reveal them for what they are. I know a lot of women who were glad that the young lady created this group. They knew there had to be others, but were afraid how others would view them. Although I was blessed to not have been a victim to TLY, but I know it was nothing but the grace of God. Had I been a promiscuous female, I probably would have gone there with him. I was thankfully involved with a man for almost 4 years and although that relationship ended 7 mos ago, it was enough to keep me from falling for his lies.

Diva

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Emanuelle Ray: hello there lady
carmel_cream_diva: hey
Emanuelle Ray: I haven't been here for some time do you remember me?
carmel_cream_diva: yes i remember
Emanuelle Ray: I couldn't resist your message next to your name on my friend list
carmel_cream_diva: it supposed to be gone
carmel_cream_diva: i had my picture of my kitten up there
carmel_cream_diva: i figured
carmel_cream_diva: it didn't change, i took that down an hr ago
Emanuelle Ray: you must have plently of responses to that one
carmel_cream_diva: yeah
carmel_cream_diva: thats why i took it down
carmel_cream_diva: it was a joke for a friend
carmel_cream_diva: i had my kitten up
Emanuelle Ray: I can only imagine the responses
carmel_cream_diva: took both down, but everyone still see the tag
Emanuelle Ray: I believe it's gone now
Emanuelle Ray: how are you doing?
carmel_cream_diva: im fine
Emanuelle Ray: better yet are you doing anyone?
Emanuelle Ray: I know you're fine that's why I am speaking with you besides the attraction of the message of course
carmel_cream_diva: no im not DOING anyone
carmel_cream_diva: well like I said
carmel_cream_diva: the message was a JOKE
carmel_cream_diva: to a specific friend, thats why i had my kitten up there
Emanuelle Ray: I got it!!! in regards to doing are you on the willing list?
carmel_cream_diva: willing list for what
carmel_cream_diva: being done?
Emanuelle Ray: doing
carmel_cream_diva: uh no
carmel_cream_diva: im not looking to be 'done'
Emanuelle Ray: damn that's a shame
carmel_cream_diva: how is it a shame?
carmel_cream_diva: its a good thing
carmel_cream_diva: only ho's wanna be "done'
Emanuelle Ray: I get so tempted upon each and every contact
Emanuelle Ray: what do you want to be then?
carmel_cream_diva: involved with a good loving man that is of high standards that he would't be looking to "do" just anyone
carmel_cream_diva: he values himself as a man of God that laying up with strange women isn't an option
Emanuelle Ray: these days that's appears to be a tall order
Emanuelle Ray: unfortanatly
carmel_cream_diva: and obviously you are not qualified to fill it
carmel_cream_diva: its a choice
carmel_cream_diva: and you chose to do nothing but give the minimum
Emanuelle Ray: that depends on who you talk to and the situation that surronds it----some are not worthy of the aforementioned
carmel_cream_diva: its a rare thing for a woman to stand up and know by not giving in she will be dateless for a while, but i'd rather go a long time without a man than settle for a boy who will get his dick head wet with any disease infested freak taht will give up the punanay
carmel_cream_diva:
carmel_cream_diva: worthy
carmel_cream_diva: you came at me looking for a ho
carmel_cream_diva: because of my tag
carmel_cream_diva: and it took me 3 times for you to get it
Emanuelle Ray: some go no further than talk ---- some dinner---some protected and always protected sex
carmel_cream_diva: NOTHING protects you from aids
carmel_cream_diva: and im sorry
carmel_cream_diva: if i can't trust who i lay with
carmel_cream_diva: im not laying with them
carmel_cream_diva: for every woman you lay with, your daughter will lay with as many men
Emanuelle Ray: that's an earned privilage
Emanuelle Ray: not given
carmel_cream_diva: just as you become a donator of sperm to women
carmel_cream_diva: your daughter will be a recipient
carmel_cream_diva: it is a given
carmel_cream_diva: if its bad now
carmel_cream_diva: how is it getting better
Emanuelle Ray: sperm is captured these days
carmel_cream_diva: you aint trying to make you better
carmel_cream_diva: she will be no more than a wet azz for some man
Emanuelle Ray: depends on whom you talk to
carmel_cream_diva: who i talk to , its REALITY
carmel_cream_diva: thats our justice right there
carmel_cream_diva: all you men want to protect your daughter, but it aitn gonna happen
Emanuelle Ray: justice is where you acquire it
carmel_cream_diva: and its acquired in that knowledge
carmel_cream_diva: that you will one day cry for her
carmel_cream_diva: because she is crying over some man that aint worthy
Emanuelle Ray: protection is acquired via practice\
carmel_cream_diva: if you don't respect a woman
carmel_cream_diva: so she can be a ho as long as she is a protected ho
carmel_cream_diva: that makes good sense
carmel_cream_diva: a virtuous woman can only come from a righteous man
Emanuelle Ray: again depends on whom you are talking to
carmel_cream_diva: im talking to you
Emanuelle Ray: you know what they say about opinions
carmel_cream_diva: yup its like an azz, everyone got one
carmel_cream_diva: and my opinon must be true cuz you said it
carmel_cream_diva: you SAID its hard today to have a man that wants a relationship
carmel_cream_diva: so just as you don't want one
Emanuelle Ray: again depends on whom you are talking to
carmel_cream_diva: i hope to God that your daughter ONLY meets men just like her daddy
carmel_cream_diva: all she gets is men interested in rubbing her pussy
carmel_cream_diva: getting done
carmel_cream_diva: laying down
carmel_cream_diva: gettting her azz waxed
carmel_cream_diva: thats what I hope for
Emanuelle Ray: she already did and doing better than me for the sacifices I have made in the past
carmel_cream_diva:
carmel_cream_diva: yeah ok
carmel_cream_diva: you don't know what she doing
carmel_cream_diva: she probably on the net now
carmel_cream_diva: half naked
carmel_cream_diva: waiting on a man
Emanuelle Ray: is your daddy in your life or better yet a man that is qualified to be the fatther of your children
Emanuelle Ray: did I lose you?
carmel_cream_diva: yes my parents are still married
carmel_cream_diva: and he wasn't on the internet trying to pick up ho's
Emanuelle Ray: if you have children------where is the daddy ----what happen to him?
carmel_cream_diva: i come from a long line of longevity
carmel_cream_diva: he is around
Emanuelle Ray: but not around you?
carmel_cream_diva: no, he don't have to be with me, as long as he is there for the kids
carmel_cream_diva: where is your wife
Emanuelle Ray: speaking of the choices we all make-----huh?
carmel_cream_diva: where is your wife
carmel_cream_diva: don't pull that dumb shit on me cuz your daughter has a jerk for a daddy
carmel_cream_diva: how many kids do you have
Emanuelle Ray: potentialy and soon available
carmel_cream_diva: roflmao
carmel_cream_diva: where is your baby mama
carmel_cream_diva:
carmel_cream_diva: probably getting her azz waxed by another lame man
carmel_cream_diva: its the same thing
carmel_cream_diva: if my husband isn't in my life. and you criticise my choice
carmel_cream_diva: its the same for you
carmel_cream_diva: but different from you
carmel_cream_diva: i choose not to continually make mistakes
carmel_cream_diva: i had a HUSBAND not a baby daddy
Emanuelle Ray: kids are grown and dong well due to sacifices madde by me and the mama's at this time doesn't even matter-----big world out there ----- go and introduce yourself
Emanuelle Ray: had is the word
carmel_cream_diva: damn mama's
carmel_cream_diva:
carmel_cream_diva: so you were just making babies
carmel_cream_diva: guess a couple of times it wasn't protected
carmel_cream_diva:
carmel_cream_diva: yes its no shame I had a husband
Emanuelle Ray: intentialy and prosperous indeed -----ty
carmel_cream_diva: and if you would like to contact him he will tell you he would love to have me back
carmel_cream_diva:
Emanuelle Ray: the choices we make over and over again
carmel_cream_diva: any man can convince a woman to sleep with him once
carmel_cream_diva: guess you can't get the 2nd date after eh hem the first night
carmel_cream_diva: lol
Emanuelle Ray: you appear to have some men issues---nothing I can solve I assure you
carmel_cream_diva: nope
carmel_cream_diva: no man issues boo
carmel_cream_diva: if you were a MAN we would be cool
Emanuelle Ray: we finally agree on something
carmel_cream_diva: but you came at me like a species beneath a man
carmel_cream_diva: like i said, if you are a Man to be proud of
carmel_cream_diva: i hope to God that your daughter meets a man just like you
Emanuelle Ray: depends on whom you talk to and their opion of a man-----once again
carmel_cream_diva: i want her to meet someone that appraoches her just like you do
carmel_cream_diva: i want her to be treated by a man just like you treating me
carmel_cream_diva: i pray to the ALMIGHTY JESUS CHRIST that she does
carmel_cream_diva: because you are a man, and i want her tohave a good man
carmel_cream_diva: cuz you said you are
Emanuelle Ray: dear I haven't treated you and I don't think there is such a treatment that exist
carmel_cream_diva: and i don't have any more time to keep up this lame convesation
carmel_cream_diva: there are plenty of freaks on the net that are looking to be done
carmel_cream_diva: please find one. you have run across the wrong one. please do as I did a long time ago, and remove me from your yahoo list
carmel_cream_diva: have a very blessed and prosperous life. God bless my son
Emanuelle Ray: may your time spent here on earth or where-ever tends to spare you little indifference
carmel_cream_diva: ty
carmel_cream_diva: gotta go post this conversation in my blog
Emanuelle Ray: ty
carmel_cream_diva: maybe your daughter is on my friends list and will see what he daddy is all about
carmel_cream_diva: yw
carmel_cream_diva: and i hope she will be proud
Emanuelle Ray: no doubt