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May 27, 2008
Why do African-American Women hate and envy each other? Do we as African-American women breed envy? And how can we stop it?
All my life I have seen women hate and envy one another to the point of self-destruction. We are so bad that we breed envy within our own families. I remember being taught that we as women are born manipulators. Well, I say I’d have to say that is a very good observation and real explanation. But mix it with poverty and ignorance and we can destroy a nation of a people. The woman is man’s first teacher. She is the nurturer and the teacher of our seeds. But we must be careful of who we let educate our women.
It has been said that the black man is very visual. This means that what we see is what we have the tendency to believe. So is our sisters watching potential self-destructive materials that are dissolving our souls and killing our seeds? The education that has been taught to our people are brainwashing and influencing the minds of our people that admire the wrong stars. The American government has allowed the media, the school system, the prison systems, the political hypocritical democracy, the medical system slowly poison us to the point of destroying our people. Our women are believing that the lighter then skin the prettier they are, the more skin you show the sexier you look, the less amount you read the smarter you are, if you imitate the lives of the celebrities that is the “life”, that all brothers are sorry and lying cheating man whore’s, that we must use our bodies and not our minds to get what we want, and to get your paper by any means necessary. Black people have allowed American to “pimp” us turning us out to all of us being no more than “$5 dollar crack whores”. Chasing the American dream is our crack. We are hopeless addicted to trying to live the “dream”, that black people continue to sell each other out to get a hit. We have completely sold ours souls.
But look at what it is doing and has done to the women. Hello!! She, (The Black Woman) is the teacher of our babies, she is the creator of many nations, she is the epitome of love, she is your mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, and wife. At least some of us know the truth and magnitude of this at least. However, until we re-educate, the miss-educated about societies’ dehumanization of African Americans of this country.
America has taught us to be cynical and selfish toward one another that we are destroying ourselves but the only way to correct it is to protect the minds of our women. By doing so we will be able to re-instill morals, values and possibly culture. Until we do this, our women will continue to breed envy and hate like “Willie Lynch,” intended. We need to educate our sisters on loving and respecting one another as sisters and family. Look at us now; we fight our own like mother against daughter, sister against sister, cousin against cousin all in the name of envy.
Even the men can bear witness to most drama is caused by women. Many men have lost their lives and freedom (so-called), to the envy that we sisters, can bring to any relationship. Most Black women are gossip and drama queens that believe that with the power of the vagina we can take over the world. And if you think that is a lie then you are walking around with your eyes wide shut. Now I can’t tell you that we don’t use it as a biological weapon to manipulate and control the masses, but didn’t America teach us this. There are not many that will or can contest this truth. Bottom line, White American has poisoned our minds to the point of not knowing how to use our heads from our tails. Naturally this type of thinking is taught to many little girls from birth. This miss-education can happen be it a father is within the home or not. After-all many African-American males have been dumbed-down and had his manhood taken from him so he does not know how to protect us. This kind of thinking can be stripped from the minds of our people but none of us really want to take a stand to change it but think it couldn’t hurt.
The man is also key in stopping the “hate,” that we bring to one another. If he were to become the man of the household then this is the foundation to the reconstruction of the Black Woman. He is the key in decreasing the envy within women. Men really don’t know the emotional devastation that a woman suffers when he breaks her heart. This too is also a remedy to that spread of envy. Men need to understand that just because you can have more than one woman don’t mean that you have the mentality or the manhood to handle it!
Maybe if we carefully evaluate these words and ourselves then we can see the solution is simple but the motivation is not there due to envy. Envy causes us not to be even able to rationally understand truth. I just hope that perhaps before we all destroy ourselves we wake up!
Uhuru! Hotep! Peace! Ma salaam a!
Amani
It has been along time since I wrote a blog. I decided that I would contemplate long and hard about what I wanted as well as needed to say. After along time of pondering of why is that we as African-Americans, struggle no matter the income level. That's when it came to me. We are suffering from terminal illness. This disease is destroying Black Americans. Have you ever just sat down a thought about a cure for a disease? This disease is an epidemic. It afflicts over 70% of the Black population. This disease, causes broken homes, teen pregnancy, homicide, suicide, genocide, heart disease, stress, heart related problems, cancer, sexually transmitted disease, poverty, helplessness, hopelessness, heartache, abandonment, fatherless/motherless children, the breakdown of all family structure, greed, envy, thievery, mass deception and ignorance.
Many of us that suffer from this disease don't even know that they have been afflicted. Unfortunately most of Black America suffers from the "Tinted Window Syndrome." This disease "is the leading killer of people of color."The Tinted Widow Syndrome is cause be ignorance. This ignorance is caused when a person of color does not have know of self and has been "dumbed down", by the American educational system. The symptoms include, self hatred, envy of your own people, violent/criminal acts that are committed against one another, "Crab in the Barrel Syndrome"(when one crab tries to get out and the others pull him back down", the act of coveting his neighbors by being a snitch, liar, follower, thief, whore, beggar and blindness to truth and reality. The more severe side effects includes, hatred of own self and color, denial of self, denial of truth, acceptance of all white lies, homicide against brother and/or sister (be it blood relation or friend), Delusions (of acceptance), Hysteria ( of not being hood rich), Paranoia(due to you having courage to seek knowledge, and rejection because of the knowledge of obtained), Hypertension (due to all of the pain/stress/fear of all the wrong you have done in the name of ignorance), and long term suffering.
This Syndrome, is when you as an individual, are standing behind a glass. This glass is thick but you can see through it. Behind this glass wall you see and here people you know and some you don't. You can hear everything that they are saying but they don't see you. They cannot hear you. They are blind to the reality of this glass that separates us. There are the people that can see this glass. These are the people that are trying to break through to help the others on the opposite side. Unfortunately they don't even recognize that there is a barrier. It is the conscious that see and hear, and the followers/believers that don't.
There is a cure for this. And we don't have to go to any pharmacy to obtain any drugs to mask the symptoms. So stop taking that Paxil, Seroquel. Prozac, Prevacid, Tums, Inderal, Coumadin, Topril, Xanax, Ambien, Valium, Codeine, Adderall, Topamax, Hydrocodone and many others. This cure is simple, painless and quick. It may call for some unity and faith. And I don't meant he bull that you are sold on Sundays and Saturdays. This is real faith. You see since Blacks and Latinos make up for the most revenue spent on consumer goods then we can change things. All we have to do is come together on just this one thing. Just this one time, we need to come together change some things. Violence is not the answer. The only way to beat some of these white people is to think. That's right, think. They created this bullshit society we call home. So when in Rome, do as the Romans' (forced) right? Ok fine we can do that and here is how. We need to set aside one day or more, however, and not spend one dime. That' right folks! NOT SPEND A RED CENT! If all of us pull together to do this we can change quite a few things in this nation. We can stop the senseless killing of our people by the police; we can make the government hear our cry. Because if you are not talking dollars, then you don't make sense (cents), feel me. This is my contribution to help change my condition. What about you? Once you are done criticizing, just think about it. What else can you do that will strike harder than any missile or hollow point? Thinks about it like this; you have never thought about anything before. In our parents and grandparents time that marched. Well we appreciate all that it did and all that "they" gave. We shall not ever forget the live lost and the slain leaders that fell. This is the contribution that we are to give back. This is a new day and a new fight. Let's make our people/ancestors/slain leaders proud.
We will boycott everything; gas, electric, groceries, certain bills (credit cards, cell bills, cable, etc.). On this day our silence will ring at an ear deafening decibel. We shall be heard all over the world. Let’s do this!
This is for the Katrina victims, our people slain by the police and government, Martin, Malcolm, Edgar, Ron Brown, Kunta, Assata, Huey, all people that have fallen to crimes of this racist government.
Pass this on to every person that you have ever cared for. This is the key to the crossroads.
Amani
Gina/Jean