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百岁夫妻81年婚龄超世界纪录(图)

http://www.sina.com.cn 2008年02月14日13:43 昆明日报
百岁夫妻81年婚龄超世界纪录(图)
晋宁百岁夫妻安享晚年 记者周瑨/摄

百岁夫妻81年婚龄超世界纪录(图)
看看幸福的合影 记者周瑨/摄

  今天是情人节,玫瑰脱销,影院爆满。当青年男女们沉醉并痴幻于终成眷属时,晋宁乡村一对百岁老人已迎来81年婚龄,超过吉尼斯世界记录,是昆明登记在册的唯一一对百岁夫妻。他们,就是本报曾报道过的王希贤夫妇,丈夫103岁,妻子102岁。
  两眼昏花,皱纹满额,小屋里,一人围着火盆,一人躺在被窝里。他们甚至已看不见对方,但一次走动,一声咳嗽,都能牵动彼此的心。老人不懂“情人节”是怎么回事,“老来只图做个伴”“活得有意思”“年轻时吵架打架,是我的不对”,当这些话从103岁的老人王希贤口中缓缓说出时,让人不禁想起那首传世诗作——“当你老了/睡思昏沉/多少人爱你年轻时欢畅的容颜/爱慕你的美丽、虚荣或者真心/只有一个人爱你那朝圣者的灵魂/爱你衰老了的皱纹/垂下头来,在红光闪耀的炉子旁/凄然诉说那爱情的消逝……”
  天冷取暖 最爱围着火盆
  前天的昆明气温骤降,呼气成雾。晋宁县牛恋乡上蒜村,一个四合院里,住着百岁老人王希贤和王赵氏。头戴绒帽,裹着大衣,王希贤正在一间小屋里烤火。里面安放有两张床,被褥和毛毯是民政部门送的。旁边的床上,老伴王赵氏睡在被窝里,互相都不说话——由于听力不好,两人只能用“感觉”来交流。
  只有稍大声对着王希贤的左耳说话,他才能勉强听到。“大爷,身体还好吧?”“没病,想死也死不掉啊!”老人略带微笑坦然说道。
  如今,照顾两人的重担落到60余岁的儿媳身上,他们的儿子10余年前就去世了。天冷,儿媳就给他们弄了一盆火放进屋里,老人坐在火盆旁,时而抽一口旱烟,再喝一口茶水,神情安详。而他的老伴,一直不离被窝。
  身无大病 每天抽旱烟喝浓茶
  每天早晨,两位老人的生活一般是这样——王希贤天亮就会醒来,扭开床头的收音机,听听报时,然后起床。拿起烟锅,默默望着窗外,抽一支旱烟。要是天晴,他会叫醒老伴,一起颤颤巍巍相互搀扶着来到院子里晒太阳。若是阴天,他就叫儿媳把火盆端过来,边烤火边抓一小把茶叶放到杯子里,冲上一杯浓茶,望着烟雾与蒸汽发呆。
  儿媳会用开水将豆奶或芝麻糊搅好,端给他们做早点,每次一小包。午饭也是由儿媳端送。王希贤吃饭有个特点:每顿必须有肉,要肥的!年夜饭,四世同堂,一家13人一起度过。王希贤除了吃下一碗饭,还能吃下不少肥肉,这引得孙女婿王存华十分羡慕:“天天抽烟喝茶吃肥肉,身体还那样好,我真的有些想不通!”
  如今,王希贤说,他每天平均要抽10余支旱烟,喝三四杯茶水。每顿能吃下一碗饭菜。除听力和视力下降得厉害,走路还行,天晴就会拄着拐杖找村里别的老人“冲壳子”(聊天)。
  爱妻重病 他感到孤独
  102岁的王赵氏面对来客,没有过多反应,她已无法清晰地说出一句话。出生在旧社会,她甚至没有一个完整的名字,后人只知道她姓赵,嫁到王家,于是她的名字成了“王赵氏”,落到户口簿上。
  “春节前,她病了一回,差点不行了!”王希贤抬起右手,指着老伴沉缓介绍。亲人们说,年前王赵氏得了一场重病,差不多六七天没吃下东西。老伴重病那久,王希贤虽然嘴里不说什么,但看上去十分孤独,吃饭也少了许多。如今,老伴病情好转,他的心情也好了很多。
  在没有阳光时,王赵氏不愿起床。这样,依靠丈夫的陪伴和床前的火盆取得温暖。
  结婚81年 老来只图做个伴
  从王希贤零碎的话语中,可知他年轻时好玩,王赵氏就经常和他争吵,两人甚至还打架。但风风雨雨中,他们相濡以沫走过了81年。如今,回想起当年,老人依然反省:“年轻时吵架打架,是我的不对。”
  如今老去,“我们嘛,老来只图做个伴了!”王希贤说。
  周围邻居时常会以羡慕的口吻称他们“老寿星”,王希贤却不以为然,他甚至为“没病,想死也死不掉”发愁。然而,当问起他“活着有没有意思”时,他又会说:“有的嘛!”他说,前几年,自己腿脚灵便时,还经常一个人上街买东西,在街上和别的老年人吹牛。平时天气好,也和村里的老倌们一起吹往事,他觉得这时心情很好,有意思。
  老伴不在身边,王希贤就会拧开床上那台木壳收音机,虽然听不懂广播里说的是什么,但咿呀一唱,就不孤独。而两人在一起时,他们虽然不过多说话,但神情中充满了岁月历练之后的祥和。
Thursday February 21, 2008 - 04:52pm (PST) Permanent Link | 2 Comments
I love yogurt

Every time when i eat my yogurt, I remember why, who and what makes me love eating yogurt so much....

It is all becoz of my belove kau fu...I remember when I was a kid, i love eating ice cream a lot (well, didnt change much till now).  One day, I was very sick, even had to skip school and kau fu brought me to see the dr.  Afterwards, kau fu brought me to "Tin Cheung Department store" (if u are at my age, u would know what that is, coz they are closed down now), I still remember it was the one in Harbor City at TST...he wanted to buy me an ice cream to make me happy, "Tin Cheung" is kind of like Dregers, which sold all imported food with only Eng on the package, kau fu was in a rush, so he didnt really read into the package, just grabbed something like an ice cream.  But when he opened it for me, he found out it was a yogurt not an ice cream, I remember he looked so sorry and disappointed, he knew that I was expecting an ice cream not a yogurt.  Of course, I never want to make my kau fu feel disappointed, so I tried it, and I start loving yogurt not only becoz it is healthy, but all becoz of the memory....and I remember how happy kau fu was when I told him the yogurt he bought was much more delicious than ice cream :) hahahahahahaha

Kau fu is going back to hk this coming Sat, he always goes back to hk during winter time, since it is toooooo cold in Canada, like -10 C, and of course for the Lunar New Year as well....for these 4 months every year is always the best time for my mom and my kau fu.  I was talking to my sis last night, she told me mom is already very excited about kau fu arriving hk on coming Sat morning, hahahahahahahaha

Wednesday November 8, 2006 - 11:57am (PST) Permanent Link | 4 Comments
Parallel Parking

Do you ever have a problem in parallel parking, check this out:

http://ebaumsworld.com/2006/07/ppark.html

Friday August 25, 2006 - 03:07pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 8 Comments
幸福的投訴

嘩! 不得不多謝大家為我舅父的禱告, 他復原得很快, 醫生明天可以 discharge from hospital :) 當我地今日去探他的時侯, 他己經坐在床上看書, 相當精神! 好犀利

相信舅父入左醫院最唔習慣可能係我舅母, 大舅父大舅母結左婚超過40年, 一向都係舅父負責家務, 日常生活的一切, 舅父知道他自己要入院幾日, 他會煮定足幾日的食物, 淋定花, 剪好晒D草, 總之造好晒所有家務。 今日, 舅母去買報紙, 她唔小心囉左2份報紙, 然後她用左一個投訴的聲音話,"一向都唔駛我買報紙, 造唔慣野真係侖盡" 縱使呢個好似係一個complain, 但聽在我cousin和我的耳中, 除左覺得舅父係一個好老公之外, 亦覺得呢個係最幸福的投訴, 但願一天, 我都可以有同樣的投訴 Image

Wednesday August 16, 2006 - 08:09pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 9 Comments
Praise the Lord
I am now typing the blog in Canada, the main purpose of coming this time is to visit my "Big Kau fu" since he is having the removal of kidney stone surgery today, praise the Lord, the surgery went very smooth and my kau fu said he doesnt feel the pain until now.  Thanks all for praying for my kau fu :) please pray for his speedy recovery
Tuesday August 15, 2006 - 07:18pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 8 Comments

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