Can somebody help me understand this???? Why is it that age has given men such a boldness and aggressiveness? I didn't experience such outward, blunt, expressions of sexual jesters when I was much younger as I do today. Does a little age give men the false sense of the "right to say and do what ever they think"??? Last Saturday evening I had a date with a man that I had just met. Immediately when we met he grabbed me and gave me a big wet kiss. Pleaseeeee, I would prefer to know a little about the person before I decide to exchange saliva. Call me old fashion....whatever. All night he was grabbing me and trying to feel things that he had no invitation to. Whenever I would say anything to try to slow his aggressiveness he would say that we are both "older" and have every "right" to do whatever we want. Well, that statement makes me feel that by being "older" we should be wiser and consider the chances of venereal diseases! Why do men think that a spaghetti dinner should turn me into a cheap prostitute? Am I old fashion? Is this the way things are today? I tend to not want to offend anyone at my own moral expense. Why can't I be more bold and say, "hey, your dinner is not worth me worrying over catching something from you"? (They always come back and say, "They are clean") What should I do and say?