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[Malaysia Kini.com] - Coming out with "courage and integrity"
[Malaysia Kini.com] - Coming out with "courage and integrity" magnify

Wong Yeen Fern
Aug 22, 06 3:05pm

http://www.malaysiakini.com/news/55710
(where the marginalized issues get reported)

Malaysian writer Ouyoung Wen Feng's acceptance and
recognition of himself as a homosexual individual has
been due to the support of American pastor Rev Pat
Bumgardner.

It was only natural that she was invited to the launch
of his Chinese-language book, `My Journey', at an art
gallery in Kuala Lumpur yesterday.

During an open discussion in conjunction with the
launch, she described his open acceptance as a
courageous action that also reflects well on his
integrity.

Bumgardner, a senior pastor based in the Metropolitan
Church in New York, said Ouyoung has honoured his
family by revealing the truth after more than 30
years.

"Ouyoung this evening has restored truth and honesty
to this foundational relationship," she said.

"Being truthful to yourself, accepting and recognising
your true self is an idea that has always been
promoted by Christianity. Ouyoung has successfully
done what he has to do."

A former journalist, Ouyoung is a well-known
columnist-cum-writer for Chinese-language daily Sin
Chew Daily. His Sin Chew column, 'Under the Statue of
Liberty', is mostly a critical analysis of current
issues in the United States.

He acknowledged his homosexuality before an audience
of about 100, who included his Spanish partner Angel,
his mother and friends.

Ouyoung, 36, is arguably one of the most high-profile
figures in the Chinese community to come out openly as
a homosexual.

Bumgardner said Ouyoung's decision will encourage
those of the younger generation to be true to
themselves and to build an inclusive community.

As homosexuals are often marginalised, she said it is
vital for them to have role models who can show them
the route to freedom and equality.

"Ouyoung is... (such a) role model. He has love for
all people around the globe, especially in Malaysia.
They can follow in his footsteps to claim the
dignified place in life that god intended for them,"
she said.

"He has taken the initiative to lead a vision of
mutual respect. With his courage in `coming out', he
is calling on (homosexuals) to take their lives
seriously and to live openly by accepting and
affirming (their homosexuality)."

Ouyoung's book is an account of his journey of
discovery as a homosexual.

"They (homosexuals) must first accept and recognise
themselves before persuading society to accept them,"
he told his audience.

Ouyoung (right) is simultaneously pursuing two
doctoral degrees - in sociology at the City University
of New York, and in theological studies at the
University of Boston.

He hopes to become a member of the clergy in 2010 and
plans to set up a Christian gay community by then.

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Wednesday August 23, 2006 - 03:36am (PDT) Permanent Link | 1 Comment
[plupenang] Ex-ex-gay Coming Out Book Launch
[plupenang] Ex-ex-gay Coming Out Book Launch magnify
Dear all,

When a person tells that he/she is ex-gay, means
he/she has turn straight. Now, it is always scaptical
to the community that how actually a gay person can
turn straight. Congratulations to those who think they
had successfully 'turn straight', be it just a
suppression or a true 180 degree sexual orentation
changed by miracle.

However, lets not forgeting that there are also people
who had so called 'turn straight', finally undo the
mistake by come to term to accept that sexual
oreintation. After taken much longer and tougher
struggle, they finally realize that sexual orientation
is not something that can be changed. It was all lies
and stories they used to deceive themselves and people
around.

Be honest and stop lying was what Oyoung trying to
tell in his latest book titled "Is It Now The Future".
Oyoung reveals his life stories through the book.
Published by 3nity Design, the Chinese controvesal
book is the first ever printed material of a gay
Malaysian public 'coming out', aiming to clarify
misunderstanding and misconception of the public
towards homosexuality.

Details of the book launch as below:

Date: 21 August 2006 (Monday)
Time: 7:00pm
Venue: Galeriiizu Kuala Lumpur
19-2-1, Mezzanine Floor, UOA Centre
Jalan Pinang, 50450 KL
Tel: 03-7880 9477 / 03-7880 9440
Organisor: 3nity Design

--------------------------------
Date: 22 August 2006 (Tuesday)
Time: 7:30pm
Venue: Cafe Xpose, 208 South Bridge Road,
#01-01, Singapore 058757
Tel: +65 9797 9396
Organisor: Fridae.com

Entrance by a book. Price RM35. Sold at entrance.

Please forward to your freinds, straights or gays to
be there and gave him support.
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Thursday August 10, 2006 - 08:35am (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
"Be strong, honey. I love you, too."
"Be strong, honey. I love you, too." magnify
Image nice story from email received....
 
A man escapes from a prison where he has been kept for 15 years. He breaks
into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed. He
orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the girl to
the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her on the neck, then gets up and goes
into the bathroom.

While he's in there, the husband tells his wife:
"Listen, this guy is an escaped prisoner, look at his clothes! He probably
spent lots of time in jail, and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he
kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do what he
tells you, just give him satisfaction, no matter how much he ravages you.
This guy is probably dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us.

Be strong, honey. I love you".

To which the wife responds, "He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in
my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked if we kept
anyVaseline in the bathroom. I told him where to find it.

"Be strong, honey. I love you, too."
Saturday July 15, 2006 - 08:06pm (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
Mahathir's "moral duty" to accuse Anwar of homosex (14/04/06)

Malaysia's Mahathir says it was his 'moral duty' to accuse Anwar of homosexuality     -- The Associated  Press (apwire)        
By SEAN YOONG
KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia 

指控安华搞同性恋 敦马:我有道德义务
http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!feM8_WiKGRbAzNM6x2l.OUEy/article?mid=177&prev=-...

  
Former Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamad said Friday he had a moral duty to accuse his ex-heir apparent of being gay, because it was ''unimaginable'' to let a homosexual lead Malaysia.
  
Mahathir's remark came in his rebuttal of a defamation lawsuit filed by his ousted deputy, Anwar Ibrahim, who has demanded unspecified damages and an injunction to prevent Mahathir from repeating the allegations.
  
Anwar's suit is ''scandalous, frivolous and vexatious, and ... an abuse of the (legal) process,'' Mahathir said in a 38-page statement filed Friday in the Kuala Lumpur High Court.
  
Mahathir will ''defend his case vigorously,'' said his lawyer, V.K. Lingam.
  
Anwar, now one of Malaysia's most prominent opposition politicians, suedMahathir in January for reiterating last year that he fired Anwar in 1998 because Anwar's alleged sexual orientation made him unfit for office.
  
Before suing his former mentor, Anwar demanded an apology and damages totaling 100 million ringgit (US$27.7 million; euro22 million) from Mahathir, whose refusal touched off a legal battle that could bring the two foes face-to-face in court for the first time since Anwar's sacking.
  
Mahathir, who retired in 2003 after 22 years in power, said in his statement that he was ''under a clear and compelling social (and) moral duty'' to repeat his allegations about Anwar at a human rights seminar last September.
  
The comment was ''to the effect that it would be unimaginable or unthinkable to have a gay prime minister in Malaysia,'' which has a largely Muslim population and considers sodomy a criminal offense punishable by prison and whipping, the statement said.
  
Mahathir said his remark explained ''it was unacceptable to have a homosexual in his Cabinet ... particularly when such a person could later succeed him and become the prime minister.'' Anwar's lawyer, Sankara Nair, said he would decide within a few weeks whether to respond to Mahathir's latest statement or take it to a court hearing.
  
In his suit, Anwar has accused Mahathir of speaking ''falsely and maliciously,'' adding that his reputation was ''gravely injured'' by the allegations.
  
Anwar was Malaysia's No. 2 leader for five years under Mahathir before they fell out over policy disagreements during the 1997-98 Asian financial crisis. Mahathir fired Anwar in September 1998, accusing him of being a homosexual.
  
Anwar was subsequently arrested, tried on corruption and sodomy charges, and sentenced to a total of 15 years in prison. A successful appeal in Malaysia's top court against the sodomy conviction set him free in 2004. He had already served a separate sentence for corruption.
    
2006/04/14

http://english.ohmynews.com/ArticleView/article_view.asp?no=285869&rel_no=1


Sunday April 16, 2006 - 02:00am (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
回應“同志是原罪”(星洲日報/溝通平台‧讀者:潘志明‧2006/04/05)
回應“同志是原罪”(星洲日報/溝通平台‧讀者:潘志明‧2006/04/05) magnify

讀了宋淩風先生對同志話題的立場,我有話說。

宋先生在文章的開始就說他並不歧視同志,而且還說了一套很“政治正確”的
話。可是,接下來的一段,就開始討伐同志的“原罪”了。以宋先生的觀點,
同志是違反“中華傳統文化”,同志也是不孝的。.......

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!feM8_WiKGRbAzNM6x2l.OUEy/article?mid=170&prev=-...


Sunday April 9, 2006 - 09:21am (PDT) Permanent Link | 0 Comments
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